Jane’s headache,

I’ve been dating John for 6 months now, and I’m really in love with him. We had so much fun on our first few dates: we planned them ahead of time and had a place to go to. But, after we were going together for a while, we started having lots of unplanned time alone. John suggested having sex. I wanted to please him, but I disagree with him on having sex. John has been pressurising me again. I am so afraid that I’ll give in to him, even though I really don’t want to. My self-control is slipping. What should I do?


Answer :
Tell him straight that you do not want to have sex. If he keeps pressurizing, then break up. Sex should only be done after marriage, not while you're young. If you really feel pressurised, break up earlier to avoid lost of self-control.

Jane’s headache,

I’ve been dating John for 6 months now, and I’m really in love with him. We had so much fun on our first few dates: we planned them ahead of time and had a place to go to. But, after we were going together for a while, we started having lots of unplanned time alone. John suggested having sex. I wanted to please him, but I disagree with him on having sex. John has been pressurising me again. I am so afraid that I’ll give in to him, even though I really don’t want to. My self-control is slipping. What should I do?


Answer :
Tell him straight that you do not want to have sex. If he keeps pressurizing, then break up. Sex should only be done after marriage, not while you're young. If you really feel pressurised, break up earlier to avoid lost of self-control.